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Are there any other reasons for flirting?
Yes there are - but now we're venturing into a darker and more dangerous area.
Insecure people often flirt to bolster their own egos. By flirting, they think they can prove they are as confident, good looking, and socially adept as everyone else. But their insecurities make them clumsy flirts. The flirtation falls flat or, worse, becomes an annoyance. It's a cycle of failure and rejection that does nothing but deepen their sense of insecurity.
And you should be wary of instigating a flirtation with someone who is insecure. He or she is liable to misinterpret your harmless compliment.
Do you recognise your own behaviours in the above descriptions? If so, you should start to work on your negative self-perception. Deal with the causes of your insecurities, rather than continuing the cycle of inept social interaction.
The flirtations of physically unfulfilled people can become overbearing. When 'flirting' gets too heavy, it inevitably causes upset and, if taken too far, becomes sexual harassment.
There is a straightforward biorhythmic explanation for offensive flirtations by attached people. A couple with low physical compatibility fail to get a sexual buzz from each other. Flirting with outsiders provides the external spark that charges their sexual batteries. For those couples who haven't switched sex off completely, the frisson of flirtation may just be enough to fuel their sex lives.
But a word of warning. The world is full of "my wife/husband/partner doesn't understand me" stories. The tellers of these tales are often predators for sexual attention. Don't let them lead you down the road to sexual harassment or an unhealthy additional relationship.
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